It's Safe In God's Hands

Biomom called PC's cell phone today while he was at work and left a message that she wants him to call her regarding her having the boys for the summer. (This is the first she has attempted to discuss it with him. The only reason I knew anything about it before this point was because the boys mentioned it to me.)

For a glimpse of what I really think on the matter see this post. 

We checked the divorce agreement regarding the kids. She's broken some huge things in there. And because she left the country for so long, it appears she may have very few rights. PC is talking about legal action to get FULL custody - as in no rights for her at all. It's so very very wrong for her to continue trying to jerk the kids around this way. I'm still hearing about how they wanted to see her before she left the country, and how she said she wanted to see them, and how "her plans must have changed". And that was over two years ago, if I remember the dates right. Disappointments just keep happening. Broken promises just keep happening. Abuse just keeps happening. And PC looked ready for war tonight when he mentioned legal action.

God, please give us wisdom. Guide us to an excellent lawyer who can tell us what we need to know, and help us to take the RIGHT steps. Because right now I'm not sure what the right step is. I would like it if her rights were completely taken away. I would dearly love to adopt them as my own - on paper, not just in my heart. But only You know if that would be the right thing for THEM. If having her be their mom on paper is somehow less damaging to them than having her rights terminated, then show us, please. But whatever Your answer is, please give us peace about it. My heart is breaking over the ongoing damage she is causing. And I see so many ways that this is going to affect their adult years. Their life decisions. Their future. Please, God, heal the hurt - emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Only You can heal pain like the pain they continue to have to deal with.